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laceblade ([personal profile] laceblade) wrote2009-06-09 09:19 pm

This post might be "too complex and nuanced for a typical web audience."

The last couple of days have been filled with anger, for me.

One involves a situation beyond my control, but leaves me feeling vulnerable and cheated by a faceless bureaucracy. Of course it will get sorted out for my personal situation, but it only reinforces my adamant belief that health care should be a right for every single person, and not a classist privilege accessible only to those who manage to find a full-time job or can afford to pay for their own health care out of pocket. What does it say about our society, if you can only gain access to medicine and technology that will make/keep you healthy if you have the money to pay for it? Isn't it bad enough for the unemployed or under-employed that they make very little money? Must we punish them further, by telling them that they don't deserve to be healthy? That, in some cases, they deserve to die?

And people truly argue about this? Fail.


I've also been thinking a lot about people in positions of power.

If you are in a position of power, and you see that the people over whom you exert power - the sheep of your flock, if you will - are not doing what they're supposed to be doing, which of the following do you think is the proper response to make your flock more functional?

A) Blame them for not knowing better (and be sure to blame other people for not teaching them better, willfully ignoring your own position of power at the moment).

B) Mock them while surrounding yourself with people who agree with you.

C) Ostracize them by making them feel ashamed or guilty, so as not to taint your tiny Type A flock of "true sheep."

D) Complain about them and how they are the reason that the group is failing as a whole. Make sure to not actually speak to them, tell them what you think what went wrong, or perform any action items to rectify what went wrong.

E) Point out to them what went wrong, and ask them what you can do with your position of power to ensure that it does not happen again.



On a lighter note, a friend of mine recently told me that she thought my Internet alias was "My Stick Eeper." I've had this alias for 8 years, and I never thought about it that way. It's supposed to be "Mystic Keeper," by the way; huzzah for aliases created at age 14.

If people want to start calling me "The Stick," though, I am okay with that.

[identity profile] sophy.livejournal.com 2009-06-10 02:27 am (UTC)(link)
Here here on both rants! To me, they seem like they could be intimately linked, but I don't know if that's how you intended them to be. Medical stuff is so much the forefront in my own mind that I transferred the power plays into that scenario, though I agree in any situation that what you say is true.
ext_6446: (That shit's crazy!)

[identity profile] mystickeeper.livejournal.com 2009-06-10 02:33 am (UTC)(link)
The second rant relates directly to my locked post from yesterday. [Look, I am vicious and mean! (http://holypriesthood.blogspot.com/2009/05/bake-sale-fun.html?showComment=1244557395635#c4132355888635209557)]

But I figured that the power dynamic is pretty universal to how people in power react to failure within their flock.

I love his tone!

[identity profile] freemonoid.livejournal.com 2009-06-10 04:53 pm (UTC)(link)
Rather than being voice of authority or wisdom, his writing comes across as a Real Life version of Percy Blakeney's foppish persona: bemoaning the dull & boorish affairs of the world while listlessly adjusting his lace sleeves & cravat.

Fascinating!

[identity profile] nylorac15.livejournal.com 2009-06-10 05:07 pm (UTC)(link)
Oh my god, he deleted your second comment! He says it's because he agrees with your point, but then why not leave it up? You made some great points in there! Failsauce!!

[identity profile] freemonoid.livejournal.com 2009-06-10 05:16 pm (UTC)(link)
Actually! I think he's referring to having deleted his own comment.

[identity profile] sophy.livejournal.com 2009-06-10 08:42 pm (UTC)(link)
Oh, I missed checking those links before. Geeze - that shoe one really makes me angry!!

[identity profile] takumashii.livejournal.com 2009-06-10 02:37 am (UTC)(link)
The only silver lining in the medical stuff I've been dealing with over the last few months is that I've only had to pay a bunch of co-pays, and that's it. What if that had been my sister, when she was working full-time at a job that wasn't really freelance but was contracted that way so as to avoid giving any benefits? What if they were telling her that she needed a CAT scan and a nuclear tracer scan and three separate rounds of X-rays all leading up to one surgery or another? My insurance company has probably spent over $10,000 on me since I broke my finger, and they haven't even operated on me yet.

Health care is a right for everyone. Period.

[identity profile] veejane.livejournal.com 2009-06-10 03:02 am (UTC)(link)
Yeah, and I live in a state where health insurance is required, but they still don't just provide it. They fine you on your taxes if you don't get it. (Don't even ask me how the tax forms work.)

I'd love to be able to organize my life so that I only work when I'm broke, and have long stretches where I just don't work and do what pleases me. But the health insurance thing is what makes it hard for me to do that: even with COBRA, my policy would cost more than half my rent every month. (Without COBRA, I am sure I would get turned down for sneezing the wrong way one time.)
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[personal profile] raanve 2009-06-10 03:13 am (UTC)(link)
Everything you say in your first rant is true, but I think there is one more that I would add:

You not only have to have access (via money, job, etc) to that system, but frequently, in order to get appropriate care, you have to understand how to navigate that system on a number of bewildering levels. (How to deal with doctors, how to find a good doctor, how to deal with bureaucracies, how to appeal to that bureaucracy when it doesn't land in your favor). And you have to have the time to do this navigating, assuming you understand how to do it.

I don't know that having a more socialized medical system than we have at present will help with the navigation problem. But yeah.

[identity profile] bibliofile.livejournal.com 2009-06-10 04:13 am (UTC)(link)
At least in a national health system we could do all the navigation without having the privilege of paying for it.

Signed,
Uninsured since my divorce
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[personal profile] raanve 2009-06-10 04:21 am (UTC)(link)
Oh, absolutely. I didn't mean to imply that I'm not for a nationalized health system. I just wanted to clarify that I'm aware such systems aren't perfect.

I do think that navigating the system is a profound hurdle, particularly so in our current system where the financial question looms so large. (And where, even if one is entitled to financial assistance in some way, it can be difficult to access one's entitlements.)

[Apologies if this is still unclear; I ought to learn not to type with a headache threatening. ;)]

[identity profile] bibliofile.livejournal.com 2009-06-10 05:13 am (UTC)(link)
But I was agreeing with YOU! That navigation shit is for the birds.

(I didn't think you were against any improvements in national healthcare, not even for a minute. I'm sorry if I gave that impression. Is Mercury retrograde or something? Because this evening is being weird like that.)
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[personal profile] raanve 2009-06-10 12:44 pm (UTC)(link)
Ah, is ok. :) As I said, my brain was not cooperating w/me.

[identity profile] berzerker-prime.livejournal.com 2009-06-10 04:18 am (UTC)(link)
Totally agree there.

It really makes me want to scream when the argument people make against having a health-care system run by the government is that it would be bureaucratic. They speak as if it isn't that way already.

Honestly, some of us would be thrilled just to have the option of something...

[identity profile] takumashii.livejournal.com 2009-06-10 02:28 pm (UTC)(link)
I KNOW! I can't count the number of times that I've been left in tears trying to navigate the system and find out who to call to find the answer to a simple question, or have been made to feel stupid because I don't know the answer to a simple question. It's bad enough at the best of times, but when you're already in pain or stressed about a medical condition, it's heinous. There was a time I just couldn't face opening any mail from the hospital for a while -- I ended up owing a lot of money.

[identity profile] nylorac15.livejournal.com 2009-06-10 03:24 am (UTC)(link)
I really enjoyed his strange rant about Star Trek.

http://holypriesthood.blogspot.com/2009/06/red-matter.html

Can anyone make sense of this?

[identity profile] sasha-feather.livejournal.com 2009-06-10 05:21 am (UTC)(link)
Thank you for pointing that out! It's hilarious!

Our parents have been taken from us, some lost to addictions, some to self-indulgence, some to divorce, each one impaled on the dark tentacles of an unseen menace. We stand, knee deep in the ashes of a future that was supposed to be prosperous and bright, and scour the toxic landscape for tools with which to survive.

And Father Joel says, "What an incredible post!"

Incredible indeed!
Edited 2009-06-10 05:21 (UTC)
jesse_the_k: text: Be kinder than need be: everyone is fighting some kind of battle (expectant)

[personal profile] jesse_the_k 2009-06-10 03:51 am (UTC)(link)
You are so "The Stick." And based on this post, you're the Clue Stick!

[identity profile] bibliofile.livejournal.com 2009-06-10 04:13 am (UTC)(link)
I think I'll want to call her just Eep.

[identity profile] berzerker-prime.livejournal.com 2009-06-10 04:21 am (UTC)(link)
Totally down with the whole 14-year-old self having made up an alias, thing. That's where my alias came from.