I also think "internalizing the feminist message" would've, YEAH, meant maybe saying "HEY AS A DUDE MAYBE THERE ARE BETTER PEOPLE WHO COULD SPEAK TO YOU ABOUT THIS."
(Also, TINIEST VIOLIN for people who fear they are "too light" for WisCon, right up there w/those ppl who make noise about how they fear WisCon has "lost its feminist roots" b/c omg we talk about racism & transphobia & classism & etc. so obvs not feminist somehow anymore!)
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I also think "internalizing the feminist message" would've, YEAH, meant maybe saying "HEY AS A DUDE MAYBE THERE ARE BETTER PEOPLE WHO COULD SPEAK TO YOU ABOUT THIS."
(Also, TINIEST VIOLIN for people who fear they are "too light" for WisCon, right up there w/those ppl who make noise about how they fear WisCon has "lost its feminist roots" b/c omg we talk about racism & transphobia & classism & etc. so obvs not feminist somehow anymore!)