I haven't read FFF but I'd heard enough that I was annoyed, if only because of much of what you just printed out above.

I hate that kind of simplistic thinking - it's what makes arguments of about choice so facile these days.

Maybe I'm just getting a lot more cranky as I get older but then again, folks like Valente seem to think that all of second wave feminism was horrific and bad, which is what I came out of.