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laceblade ([personal profile] laceblade) wrote2008-04-09 10:03 am
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Now I just need to figure out what to do with my hair.

Throughout my life, I have struggled with the concept of fashion. In middle school and high school, much to the dismay of my mother and sister, I wore whatever I found to be comfortable, be it a flannel shirt or a peasant-cut top. I knew that I wasn't often fashionable, but I didn't really care. As I grew older, I came to accept the fact that my body is different from those of most girls. It's hard to find tops that look flattering on me, because a lot of things have under-the-bust lines that end up being across-the-middle-of-my-bust that make me look absurd.

I have compensated - I have found bargain items that still flatter curves and match with my pants and skirts.

I have come to accept my level in fashion - there is a below-the-line level to which I will never sink (electric blue eyeliner with bizarrely-cut suits in horrific colors that shock the conscience) and a silver lining to which I can never hope to reach (a fashionable haircut with simple but fashionable jewelry that changes every day to complement the highly-fashionable but seemingly effortlessly-put-together outfit I'm wearing).

I am somewhere in the middle, but on days like today, my level is just really annoying. I have this nice just-below-the-knee skirt that's so brown it's almost black (but still brown!) that is cut in a flattering way, but I'm really struggling to find anything to wear with it. Could I wear a yellow polo with a black sweater over it? When people say that wearing black with brown is now acceptable, is it only certain shades of brown? How come I don't have more pairs of nylons? I have enough tights now, but my nylons are terrible....the ones I have on have two large runs and no coverage over any of the toes on my left foot except for the big one....I'm waiting for them to just drift away from legs in tatters throughout the day.

I know that I wore this skirt on Easter, but I can't remember what the hell I wore with it. Did I wear this black sweater with the yellow polo? Did it look as ridiculous as I think it does now? Were the women in my family silently judging/pitying me all day?

Okay, okay. I've traded the yellow polo/black sweater for a short-sleeved blouse that's mostly shades of pink, with hints of dark green and brown, with a really interesting texture. I originally wore this shirt for a thing called Snow Ball.....my sophomore year of high school.

[identity profile] antarcticlust.livejournal.com 2008-04-09 05:47 pm (UTC)(link)
I vote for pink with brown!

I know what you mean about fashion - I made my appearance a priority when I came to Madison, and it's something I've been working on a lot in the last couple of years. It gets easier over time. :)

We just have to get you going to Steven, now!
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[identity profile] mystickeeper.livejournal.com 2008-04-09 07:35 pm (UTC)(link)
It's good to know that it gets easier over time!

What/where is Steven?

[identity profile] antarcticlust.livejournal.com 2008-04-09 08:57 pm (UTC)(link)
We haven't told you about Stephen at Hair (in retrospect, I think it's spelled with a "ph")?!

Definitely get your next haircut with him, and tell him Sandy sent you (it's her turn to get a coupon). He's hot (and straight, but married), funny, likes comics and great television and movies and politics, and is really fun to talk to. And you get head and hand massages.
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[personal profile] littlebutfierce 2008-04-10 12:12 am (UTC)(link)
Oh! I've been thinking about fashion lately b/c I just read this anthology about women & fashion that kinda sucked, & it occurred to me that I'd get more interesting discussion if I just implored all my f-list to write about fashion. & here you go starting it w/o me even asking. ;)

I am so against dark brown w/black. I know everyone does it now but I disapprove! I will grudgingly wear khaki-ish stuff w/black, but only grudgingly. ;) But I really like pink & brown!
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[identity profile] mystickeeper.livejournal.com 2008-04-10 01:06 am (UTC)(link)
Yay, pink and brown indeed! I'll be wearing pink and brown when I stand up in Chad's wedding this summer. And laughing because the guys will be wearing black with brown accents.

[identity profile] jume.livejournal.com 2008-04-11 02:42 am (UTC)(link)
I like what I see other girls wearing sometimes but it never seems to look good on me. Maybe it's because I get my fashion advice from my dad xD

Recent outfits:
purple(or was it brown?) tank top with a semi-sheer white shirt over it and a violet velvet dress from goodwill's

Black gaucho pants with a blue short sundress with a white shrug over it (because I hadn't shaved under my arms for a few days at that time xD).

vertically striped pink camisole with a brown shrug over it with jeans (today's!)

but usually i fall into the pit of jeans+t-shirt hell. . .